A Word of Advice on 'Friend' Requests
Managing a social networking site introduces you to many new varieties of nefarious and scurrilous online activity. One of these is 'friend whoring'. This is the paractice of sending out friend requests to large numbers, or all, members of a network in order to establish a large friends list. The advantage of this to marketers ( viagara salesmen and the like ) is that they can then send out broadcast emails to their 'friends' without scrutiny by site administrators and moderators. Obviously this is a highly undesirable state of affairs and one which we constantly guard against. We carefully scrutinize each new application for membership in order to weed out these elements but we can never be 100% successful.
For these reasons we are always concerned when otherwise dormant and inactive members suddenly start to send out large numbers of 'Friend Requests'.
We are advising members not to accept these in circumstances where there seems to be no good reason for the request to be made.
We are taking the unusual step of issuing this security advisory because there are some indications from the log files that spammers have been taking an increasing interest in our network in recent weeks. Therefore we think its wise to proceed with caution.
Hi Rhianne....thanks for the input . It sounds like you have a pretty solid system in place.:)We take some pains to ensure that spammers don't get into AC. I don't want to detail our procedures for security reasons but suffice it to say that all membership requests are vetted and when in doubt we usually err on the side of caution. There are a number of automated procedures that Ning has introduced recently but I don't think they are adequate. Not because they are ill-conceived or badly implemented but rather because a percentage of spammers will learn from experience and ultimately bypass any automated system.Good old-fashioned round the clock monitoring of the log files wins out every time:)
CeriCrucial information imparted, and excellent assurances from you.I know too well the dangers involved as I am a Manager and Moderator within a professional 'LinkedIn' community that numbers more than 5000 members.When self-promoters see those figures for membership they sometimes lose sight of guidelines. Some are just sitting there waiting for the opportunity to spam huge numbers of people. The worse case scenario is when they duplicate the membership detail and sell it off to a third party!One very itchy subject is the inclusion of photographs too - members within that particular on-line forum desire a degree of transparency and openness to be shown, so as soon as a member arrives the moderation process goes like this:1. Immediately the member appears as a new joiner a polite request is sent to complete the profile including the addition of a recent photograph.2. Ten days later if nothing has been added a note is sent informing them that if no detail is included in the next 10 days the membership is deleted.3. On that tenth day a reminder is sent to ask them to check their spam folders in case previous notes have been overlooked, and they are asked to address the request within 24 hours. Failing that request, the membership is terminated.It might appear harsh to some but there are serious obligations to be taken on board when one is in the position of managing private and personal data. Here in UK we have to register with a Govt agency for Data Protection - and pay for the affiliation.Hwyl, Rhianne
Yes good idea Thanks
Wise words, thankyou.
V sensible advice. Thanks.
It has to be said that we learn as we go along! I am still finding my way in the world of 'friending' so any information that helps me to take care is appreciated. thanks Ceri.liz
Thanks for having our backs.Salli
Thank you, Ceri!Beth
@Lora LOL...no worries
Well, I haven't been doing the social network thing for more than a couple of months of now, and I have never heard the term "friend whore". Wow. Since I am writing a novel based on Welsh/Roman history and "legends", if I talk to you about my book...it is related