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Real Life Stories: Is your fantasy your reality?


By Lindsay Halton, 2015-02-21

Real Life Stories: Is your fantasy your reality?

In Wales we are great storytellers, and we know that in real life there is a good story to tell.


How good is the story you are living in? Is it what you want?


Shoes and mirrors, stairs and wardrobes, they all reveal the secret life of people. So as a homesouls consultant I am invited in to reveal what their home is trying to tell them.

In my first of three true stories about life choices - Lucy (not her real name), couldn't fulfill her romance and fantasy, so she took a second lover, and lived two separate lives - each one secret from the other, and this went on for twelve years. What started as Lust soon turned to Love and then two households grew. It was hard for her to manage these two, but manage she did, with growing discontent - not visible at the surface. That is why she called me in. She had no intention of revealing her real life stories, but I saw through her facade and told her so.

I used  Glass Runes  to do a homesouls Oracle reading, and this inspired an intuition which I knew to be the truth. Her response was; shock, embarrassment, relief, then with tears she told the truth. Her two lives had grown too big, but what was she to do? Lucy could not manage them anymore. She could not speak her story, but she could do something about the reflection in her home.

As a child she used to dream about 'The Lion, The Witch And The Wardrobe'; in which Lucy discovers a wardrobe through which she enters a magical world called Narnia. So it was toward Lucy's wardrobe that we looked, and we talked of her childhood and her dreams,of how her home life story began. She could not find enough love in just one relationship; her neediness had grown from woundedness, and this went back to lack of love as a child.

I would never see or hear from Lucy again, but I sensed the power of that story, and the image of her secret life that started in her childhood wardrobe, and she carries it with her in the clothes that she wears and the image that she presents to the world. ...... read the full blog   to learn:

  • What did I discover when I visited her?
  • What did she do about her choices?
  • What would you do?

The Plash Inn  will be hosting its first ever storytelling night on Tuesday the 24th of March at 7.30pm. its in  Llanfallteg,  Carmarthenshire,  SA34 0UN

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Happiness and the patina of age


By Lindsay Halton, 2014-11-23

http://www.homesouls.com  - In interior design the patina of age is trendy now. A place is a relationship, it has a story. The things that we have, say so much about the way we are; their patina holds a story that is shaped over time. Read my blog for some advice and guidance about the real value of patina:

http://www.homesouls.com/blog/2014/11/patina-of-age/

The patina of life is rich, and life experience decorates our world. Where you are is an extension of who you are - So take a look around you:

How does your home move you?
What of yourself do you see in it?
What marks have you made, and what marks have been made upon you?

My blogs are written regularly on the 1st. and the 21st. of each month. So please keep in touch, follow https://twitter.com/homesouls

Contact me: Lindsay Halton Architect-Author-Guide  www.homesouls.com/contact-us/

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Its good to be alone in your own shed.


By Lindsay Halton, 2014-10-28

My life extension
Permitted development
Place for me to shed


If you have your own shed then you are in creative company- Dylan Thomas had one and so did Virginia Wolf, so too did Roald Dahl – Our sheds tell good stories, so perhaps this is why the writers like them so much.  A shed takes us outside the home, and perhaps it takes us outside in order to be closer to a more creative aspect of who we are – to a wilder state than the more domestic versions of ourselves.

His and her own shed


The wild woman Caitlyn Thomas used to lock her husband Dylan in his own shed to make his poetry work, maybe he would have preferred to go down the pub, but so much more creativity came out of his writing shed. In his ‘A poem in October’ he wrote:


“….And I rose…In rainy autumn…And walked abroad in a shower of all my days…”.


In the shed we are just inches from the elements, and our human nature walks abroad, yet not so far from home.

Make your own shed a pink shed – Do it for breast cancer


I used to Envy the roadside worker looking so at home with kettle on the woodstove in his own shed by the roadside, and then the allotment couple retiring from the worldly race in their own shed, seeming so content to pass the time, with the married man extoling virtues of time well spent alone, and the office worker’s abandonment of form for freedom at home in her own shed; where self-employment became fulfillment, and her expression of joy was pretty in pink; Yes! not the old age brown, or green, or weathered grey boards, but the new age pink - which I thought at first a reactionary jest to challenge a stereotype – “no longer just the man shall inhabit the shed”.  But no; a bold and pretty statement, that draws attention to the female breast, as an advert for this Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

My own shed story


My own shed is nearing completion, and I cannot do that pink thing to it – I can tell you it is not a pretty place; home to my peculiarities – It tells my story. Cobbled together from past and present; from the Larch of my woodland, my old french doors, and the cast iron stove now 30 years from its starter home, with mirrored window imposing  my reflection upon what I see outside, and 50 years of story scratched and scrolled into floor boards that now adorn my new walls- Enriched with the fabric that rubbed against my home life; home now to the books that inspire me still.

The wilder-ness of your own shed


So what about you? Do you have your own shed, or another place that will put you in touch with the wilder-ness of who you are? Building your own shed is a chance to explore.

Explore the idea of fabric and texture, of fragrance and light, of openness and enclosure, of your own shed and what its humble shelter could do for you. So many are doing it now, but without so much expression – Shed sales are up by 300% and the back garden economy is booming. Home is now for work, no longer just for rest and play, and that is a modern function of the shed – home is a mirror of self, and the shed now has so much more to say.

Check out my shed pics at:  http://www.pinterest.com/lindsayhalton/studio-sheds/

Is your shed a UK best? if so nominate it at  http://www.readersheds.co.uk/shedme.cfm

More pink sheds at:  http://www.easyshed.co.uk/blog/breast-cancer-awareness-month-pink-sheds/

The Secret of Home  was my first book; a self-help guide to read your home and to work with your home as a means to achieve a better life.

 

I will be writing about the meaning of colour in future blogs – Why do women wear red shoes and what happened to the woman who lived in a black and white house?

Follow me on  Twitter  and read my future blogs to find out more, Let me know about your own shed.   Contact me

Lindsay Halton Architect-Author-Guide

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