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Marshmallow Thoughts

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By: Gillian Morgan
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I couldn't get a signal on the telly on Sunday night. After I twisted the setabout for a while I saw the aerial lead had come out so Istuck it back (into the wrong socket), so still no signal. I called Peter who saw immediately I'd put it in the wrong place.

Well, I've always known we have differentsorts of brain.Ifind it hard to be objective, leave alone technical.

Telling my younger daughter about this she came up with an explanation: women who are exposed to high levels of the female hormone oestrogen when in the womb think in a feminine way. If they have a high dose of testosterone (the male hormone) they have masculine brains.

It figures. I've never wanted to join the army, wear uniform (I hate prickly fabric next to me) or bark orders at anyone (my voice is quite quiet so I'dneed a loud hailer). I've never wanted to be a man.

TheTimes this week has been full ofwomen who struggled back to their jobs after having babies. (They didn't need the money, so I'm not pitying them.) Don't know their levels oftestosterone butthey think they're smashing through the so-called 'glass ceiling', but I'll not go into that now. Instead, I'll talk about a trait I've noticed in 'successful' women. They like blackor navy blue.

I won't go near black or navy blue if I can help it. I was sitting in the sunshine inCarmarthen recently and noticeda celandinehad pushed through a crack in a nearby wall. A young woman passed meand the first thing I noticed was the black suit and shoes. It was two o'clock and I guessed she'd had a mid-day break and was going back to wherever she worked.

I do not want to be reminded of the colour of working uniforms, though I realise they are useful, corporateand necessary. Careerwomen are dressing in a similar way to men because they want the identification with work that these colours give.

In Indian medicine, if you suffer from gallstones (I have) you should look at the colour orange, drink from an orange glass, sit on an orange cushion and eat orange food. (I'm fine now).

Now, back to masculine women again. Pink is a healing colour, the inside shade of a baby's ear, the blush of a rose petal:what I'm wondering is, how does the colour pink affect people's perceptions?

If career women had a good dose of pink would it cure them of wanting to fight their way to the top and make them more contenttolook after their own children? Honestly, I'm not being sexist.

Tod Enders
03/13/13 09:48:25PM @tod-enders:
Hmmm.... Not overly fond of Hillary's politics, Gaynor, but I admire strong women in general, so hats off to her on that count! She's certainly no push-over!I'm glad pink calms you down, Gillian. To each his own! It automatically reminds me of either cotton candy or pepto-bismal, both of which make a bit queasy!! I can't say as I've ever attempted to wear yellow - the thought of it is causing my left eyebrow to twitch.My wife has started a business centered primarily around ladies accessories. I believe she is becoming known locally as the Queen of Scarves. She isn't online yet, though if I get a little free time, that might change very quickly!
Gillian Morgan
03/13/13 07:47:31PM @gillian-morgan:

Let me know about your wife's business, Todd. On-linebusinesses run by women are big in this country at the moment. I've heard of very successful ideas coming to life on the kitchen table.


Gaynor Madoc Leonard
03/13/13 07:45:24PM @gaynor-madoc-leonard:

Yellow is a difficult colour to wear and perhaps not one for the more mature woman (like our Hillary). Hope she gives herself some time to recover from her illness before going for the presidency.


Gillian Morgan
03/13/13 07:36:44PM @gillian-morgan:

I have Hillary Clinton's autobiography, Gaynor, and I admire her a great deal. She used to wear some silky trouser outfits in dubious colours, like yellow, which I was not so sure about. Yellow is the colour of choice for ambitious people, so that would explainthe colour if not the outfit!


Gillian Morgan
03/13/13 07:33:23PM @gillian-morgan:

Well, Todd, you may not like pale pink but there are 'Fifty Shades' (!) of pink: carmine, electric, fuchsia, sherbet, sunset.I'll be serious: it can look 'washed out' but if ever I want to feel calm, I wear pink.


Tod Enders
03/13/13 04:04:24PM @tod-enders:

Yeah, I don't know. I have (for a gun-toting, country pseudo-republican) a fairly strong feminine side (don't let it get around) - but I DESPISE pink (all pastels, really)! But then, I don't like it on my wife either! My favourite article of her clothing was a black velvet robe with gold thread embroidery - and believe me, I wasn't thinking of her as masculine when she wore it!!


Gaynor Madoc Leonard
03/13/13 03:13:15PM @gaynor-madoc-leonard:

Hillary Clinton carries a large pink bag - maybe you can be in touch with your feminine side, even in a very important position!